If you are reading this and I’ve said or done anything to you that was disrespectful, made you uncomfortable, or was otherwise hurtful, I invite you to tell me (but don’t feel obligated to). Even if you don’t fault me for what I did, please don’t feel bad about telling me. I commit to listening and not being defensive, dismissive, or judgmental.
If you are worried that this might re-open a wound, you can request that I not reply to you and I will honor that.
If you don’t want to say anything, I totally respect that too. Please know that I’m sorry, I messed up and it’s my fault. The door is always open to talk to me about it, should you change your mind.