Can be rendered with https://bramp.github.io/js-sequence-diagrams/
Very much a brainstorm.
Based on thoughts from @blaine: http://www.slideshare.net/Blaine/social-privacy-for-http-over-webfinger and http://blog.romeda.org/2011/03/private-webhooks-private-feeds.html
But adapted somewhat to the current IndieWeb ideas.