So you know how ps piped to grep shows you the grep command?
$ ps auxww | grep bash
ben 64291 0.0 0.0 2435036 372 s001 R+ 11:48AM 0:00.00 grep bash
ben 61887 0.0 0.0 2435468 1896 s001 S 11:38AM 0:00.13 -bash
ben 61376 0.0 0.0 2435468 1888 s000 S+ 10:46AM 0:00.06 -bash