aka what i did to get from nothing to done.
note: these are designed to be primarily a re-install guide for myself (writing things down helps me memorize the knowledge), as such don't take any of this on blind faith - some areas are well tested and the docs are very robust, some items, less so). YMMV
Note this should only be done once you are sure you have reliable TB mesh network.
this is because proxmox UI seems fragile wrt to changing underlying network after configuration of ceph.
All installation done via command line due to gui not understanding the mesh network
This setup doesn't attempt to seperate the ceph public network and ceph cluster network (not same as proxmox clutser network), The goal is to get an easy working setup.
