maybe_hide_pause_resume_link.php

<?php

function maybe_hide_pause_resume_links($link, $sub) {
  // Replace 123, 456 with the membership IDs which members can still pause/resume subscriptions for.
  $products_to_allow = array('123', '456');
  $product = $sub->product();

  if(in_array($product->ID, $products_to_allow)) {
    return $link;
  } else {
    $link = '';
    return $link;
  }
}

add_filter('mepr_custom_pause_link', 'maybe_hide_pause_resume_link', 10, 2);
add_filter('mepr_custom_resume_link', 'maybe_hide_pause_resume_link', 10, 2);