Say your Cmdr name and the closest simple named system found in the navigation list on the left. PC or XB1.
If you are on Emergency air log out to the main menu. If not drop SC and turn off all modules EXCEPT life support.
Are you familiar with wing mechanics?
"Hit "2" then "Esc" and that should let you "E" your way across the top tab to the people and select the fuelrat and "Invite to wing" then after rat joins your wing go to the same place on the panel and select "options" then "Enable wing beacon
If you exit out to the menu there is FRIENDS AND GROUP MANAGEMENT. There you can click on + ADD FRIEND then search commander name
To add the rats to your friends list press the XBOX button once, then press the RB button once, select the friends tile and press a to enter your friends list. Now press Y and search for the rats name.
Press start, go down to "friends" click it and wait a few seconds - this should refresh the friends list.
Then to add the rats to your wing hold the X button and press up on the D-pad, press RB once, then select the name of a rat and select [Invite to wing]
To light your wing beacon please hold X and press RIGHT on the D-pad. Press the LB button once then select beacon and set it from OFF to WING