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As a matter of fact, I am Dazzozo's boyfriend. I don't understand this repeated behaviour towards him. I am not asking for anyone to praise him, but for people to at least understand the circumstances.
I will try my best explaining it, as I am not native English, but French.

The age of consent in France is 15 years old. And I am indeed 15 years old. However, this seems to be one year older in the UK, and some laws prohibit this kind of relationships in Dazzozo's country; which he legitimately didn't know about (and neither did I).
He was indeed planning to meet me, less than two weeks ago, and have a stay in France. This was cancelled after learning about these laws and was reported by the ReSwitched group and whatever about this.
There is, however, no evidence that he was planning to meet me for a sexual relationship (which even would be legal in my country, but whatever).
Of course, Dazzozo never tried to deny it because *he does not deny it*. Since Plailect even linked his Twitter account, you can even check his Twitter biography, which is quite self-explanatory.
He doesn't think he is doing anything wrong, and neither do I, and neither do my parents, my friends or his friends.
We have been in a relationship after having known ourselves for more than a year, since we both were in the CTRDev group chat, where lots of other people (that I don't know the Reddit handles for, sorry) were too.

I also do not understand what he has to do with TheCruel, which was indeed arrested for child pornography. And I agree he does deserve his jail sentence for this, but I do not see the relation between Dazzozo and TheCruel.
Dazzozo never has tried to seduce me or never tried to have sex with me or get that kind of pictures from me. He never even has asked me for pictures of me. Of my cats though, yes.
And, what I really **don't** understand, is why, would his position in the scene even matter ? I don't care where he is on the scene, I just spend my time playing video games with him and talking about everything and nothing.

We do normal things that any couple would do, and what is wrong with that ? How is it unhealthy ?
I can only see that you guys are making it unhealthy by applying a lot of stress on us. We both have a lot of things to deal with in our personal lives.
So, of course, some people, without knowing anything about our relationship, decided that it would be wrong because I am missing only one year for it to be legal in **his** country?

I seriously cannot accept this. The only damage I am able to see right now is what you are currently doing. This has lasted for weeks of menacing and aggression towards him.
I do not see how any of this would prevent actual child abuse. I am really concerned about child abuse. My parents do know what I am doing too.
Though, my father never was considered a pedophile for meeting my mother, which was 15, when he was 21.

I do not tend to be isolated from friends. I have to isolate myself because of what you people are doing. And so does he.
He was talking openly about meeting me in the Reswitched group, because he genuinely thought that it was absolutely fine. He was really being happy to meet me, and so was I.

So, please, tell me what is unhealthy in our relationship, since I lack one year for it to be legal in the UK ?
People seem to know everything without even knowing anything about what is happening or even just us.



And, /u/Plailect, I know you have also asked Dazzozo to review your writeup on k9lh. I also remember you telling me when you added my waithax to your guide.
You also say: "I will answer questions that do not compromise the privacy of the minor involved to the best of my ability". The question is, can you even compromise anything ?
I really regret that I have contributed to this scene.



I am open for any discussion, by the way.