All of my major discord bots from the start has used an database, which is PostgreSQL. And I was first introduced to the world of databases through ORMs like SQLAlchemy and many others. But having tried ORMs ranging from SQLAlchemy to Prisma, I have really concluded that throughout this whole entire time, I didn't really need an ORM. I just needed to learn SQL for once.
I had always seen SQL as a very complex and interlocking language, so much that I spent every single excuse