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djabberd:
	http://www.danga.com/djabberd/
	danga - gearman, memcached guys
	perl, ldap, sqlite
	runs lj's jabber

openfire:
	http://www.igniterealtime.org/projects/openfire/plugins.jsp
	looked at this before and liked it
	all transports are available, pretty gui
	java
	provides an as3 client library, other java api's

jabberd2:
	http://codex.xiaoka.com/wiki/jabberd2:start
	probably does everything we need
	this is what i used ages ago