I have a test application running at test.rsscloud.io on ports 80 and 9876.
The following code works:
curl --location --request POST 'https://brokenriverbooks.com/?rsscloud=notify' \
--header 'Content-Type: application/x-www-form-urlencoded' \
--data-urlencode 'domain=test.rsscloud.io' \
--data-urlencode 'port=80' \
--data-urlencode 'path=/feedupdated-s8759' \
--data-urlencode 'registerProcedure=' \
--data-urlencode 'protocol=http-post' \
--data-urlencode 'url1=https://brokenriverbooks.com/feed/'
However if you change the port to 9876 it fails. For some reason the rssCloud plugin seems unable to hit ports that are not 80.
From what you are describing, I'm not sure that this is directly related to the RSS Cloud plugin. You mentioned that it worked out of the box, with the feed showing the latest data and pings going out to FeedLand.
To track this down I think you are going to need more data. I'd recommend adding logging to every step, that what you can confirm when a step went missing that you were expecting to happen.