In order to foster a welcoming and inclusive environment for everyone, we ask all members to read and agree to our Code of Conduct when joining. This Code of Conduct is a living document and will be updated from time to time as necessary. The current version can always be found here. All changes will be announced in the #announcements channel of our Discord server as they are made. Agreeing to the Code of Conduct implies that you will monitor these changes and revoke your agreement if and when you no longer agree.
We as members, contributors, and leaders pledge to make participation in our community a harassment-free experience for everyone, regardless of age, body size, visible or invisible disability, ethnicity, sex characteristics, gender identity and expression, level of experience, education, socio-economic status, nationality, personal appearance, race, religion, or sexual identity and orientation.
We pledge to act and interact in ways that contribute to an open, welcoming, diverse, inclusive, and healthy community.
❤️ Demonstrating empathy and kindness toward other people
🧡 Being respectful of differing opinions, viewpoints, and experiences
💛 Giving and gracefully accepting constructive feedback, charitably interpreting others' words
💚 Accepting responsibility and apologizing to those affected by our mistakes, and learning from the experience
💙 Focusing on what is best not just for us as individuals, but for the overall community
💜 Respecting everyone's consent and boundaries
Community leaders (moderators and administrators) are responsible for clarifying and enforcing our standards of acceptable behavior and will take appropriate and fair corrective action in response to any behavior that they deem inappropriate, threatening, offensive, or harmful.
Community leaders have the right and responsibility to remove messages and content that are not aligned to this Code of Conduct, and will communicate reasons for moderation decisions when appropriate.
Instances of abusive, harassing, or otherwise unacceptable behavior may be reported to the community leaders responsible for enforcement via Discord direct message to anyone with the @Mod role or, when appropriate, by tagging them in public chat. (Consent to directly message these community leaders about such a situation is granted implicitly.) All complaints will be reviewed and investigated promptly and fairly.
All community leaders are obligated to respect the privacy and security of the reporter of any incident.
If the person you wish to report is one of the community leaders, please contact the community owner cyberbarbie directly via Discord message @cyberbarbie#8051 or email taeluralexis@icloud.com with your concerns.
Community leaders will follow these Community Impact Guidelines in determining the consequences for any action they deem in violation of this Code of Conduct. Note that these are guidelines for reaction, not a strike system. Judging the severity of an incident is left to community leader discretion, and the response may fall anywhere on this spectrum.
Community Impact: Use of inappropriate language or other behavior deemed unprofessional or unwelcome in the community.
Consequence: A private, written warning from community leaders, providing clarity around the nature of the violation and an explanation of why the behavior was inappropriate. A public apology may be requested.
Community Impact: A violation through a single incident or series of actions.
Consequence: A warning with consequences for continued behavior. No interaction with the people involved, including unsolicited interaction with those enforcing the Code of Conduct, for a specified period of time. This includes avoiding interactions in community spaces as well as external channels like social media. Violating these terms may lead to a temporary or permanent ban.
Community Impact: A serious violation of community standards, including sustained inappropriate behavior.
Consequence: A temporary ban from any sort of interaction or public communication with the community for a specified period of time. No public or private interaction with the people involved, including unsolicited interaction with those enforcing the Code of Conduct, is allowed during this period. Violating these terms may lead to a permanent ban.
Community Impact: Demonstrating a pattern of violation of community standards, including sustained inappropriate behavior, harassment of an individual, or aggression toward or disparagement of classes of individuals.
Consequence: A permanent ban from any sort of public interaction within the community.
The Code of Conduct presents a general framework for behavior, but our Discord server also has several specific rules to which members are asked to adhere.
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In general, you should try to abide by the topic descriptions for the channels. If you veer far off topic for an extended conversation, a community leader may gently nudge you toward the appropriate place. Please accept such advice graciously.
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Don't spam any channel. This includes massive walls of text, links, and images. If you need to share a large document, please consider providing a link to an external service such as GitHub Gist.
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Do not directly message (DM) other community members without their prior consent. You may request to DM someone by tagging them in a public channel to ask politely. They are not obligated to accept your request, and please respect if they do not. There is an exception to this rule for messages sent to or from community leaders regarding enforcement actions, as described above. If someone DMs you without permission and makes you uncomfortable, please contact a community leader to discuss it.
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Self-promotion and promotion of other content creators is allowed, but please keep direct references such as content links and stream start announcements restricted to the #promotion channel. This prevents repetitive links from cluttering the other conversations and allows other community members to mute the channel if they are not interested in those announcements.
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If you're not sure if something is ok, please ask. If your question regards the server rules, you can ask in the #questions-and-feedback channel. If it regards an interpersonal interaction with a specific person, ask them. When you don't know, try not to assume.
In addition to the rules above, our community has a handful of lightweight social suggestions. You should not be afraid of breaking a social suggestion. These are things that everyone does, and breaking one doesn't make you a bad person. If someone mentions that you've run afoul of one of them, don't worry. Just apologize, reflect for a moment, and move on.
The social suggestions aren't for punishing people. They help make this server a pleasant environment where you are free to be yourself, tackle things outside your comfort zone, and focus on the technology topics you care about.
Alice: I just installed Linux on my computer!
Bob: It's actually called GNU/Linux.
A well-actually is when you correct someone about something that's not relevant to the conversation or tangential to what they're trying to say. They're bad because they aren't helpful, break the flow of conversation, and focus attention on the person making the well actually.
This rule can be a bit tricky because there isn't a clear line between relevant to the conversation and not. Sometimes your correction might actually be necessary, and it could still come off as annoying when you make it. The best rule of thumb is, if you're not sure whether something needs to be said right now, hold off and see what happens. You can always say it later if it turns out there's no way for the conversation to move forward without your correction.
Dan: What's the command line?
Carol: Wait, you've never used the command line?
Feigned surprise is when you act surprised when someone doesn't know something. Responding with surprise in this situation makes people feel bad for not knowing things and less likely to ask questions in the future, which makes it harder for them to learn.
"No feigning surprise" isn't a great name. When someone acts surprised when you don't know something, it doesn't matter whether they're pretending to be surprised or actually surprised. The effect is the same: the next time you have a question, you're more likely to keep your mouth shut. An accurate name for this rule would be "no acting surprised when someone doesn't know something", but it's a mouthful, and at this point, the current name has stuck.
Bob: What's the name of the string copy function?
Alice: Strncpy.
Eve (uninvolved in conversation): You should use strlcpy. It's safer.
In an offline context, backseat driving is when you lob advice from across the room without joining a conversation. Because you haven't been participating in the conversation, it's easy to miss something important and give advice that's not actually helpful. Even if your advice is correct, it's rude to bust into a conversation without asking. An online analog for this behavior may take the form of someone making hit-and-run interjections into a conversation they are otherwise uninvolved in or have just showed up during. If you arrive mid-discussion and think you might have something helpful to add, try to read the history, give it a moment, and get into the flow of conversation before interjecting.
Carol: Windows is hard to use.
Bob: No way. Windows is so easy to use that even my mom can use it.
Subtle -isms are subtle expressions of racism, sexism, ageism, homophobia, transphobia and other kinds of bias and prejudice. They are small things that make others feel unwelcome, things that we all sometimes do by mistake, and also go by the name microaggressions. Subtle -isms make people feel like they don't belong in the community. We want to create an environment where everyone can focus all their energy on the topics we care about. It's hard to do that if you're regularly being made to wonder whether you belong.
Subtle -isms can also be things that you do instead of say. This includes things like sharing content that may be insensitive to a marginalized group or assuming someone isn't a programmer because of their race or gender.
The fourth social suggestion is more complicated than the others. Not everyone agrees on what constitutes a subtle -ism. Subtle -isms are baked into society in ways that can make them hard to recognize. And not everyone experiences subtle -isms in the same way: subtle homophobia won't hurt someone who's straight in the same way it hurts someone who's gay.
There's another part of no subtle -isms: If you see racism, sexism, etc. outside of our community, please don't bring it in. For example, please don't start a discussion about the latest offensive comment from Random Tech Person Y. Everyone who comes to this server should have the same opportunity to focus on technology, and people from oppressed groups often find discussions of racism, sexism, etc. particularly hard to tune out. There are many places to discuss and debate these issues, but there are few where people can avoid them. The exception to this would be any channel with a topic specifically including such content.
This Code of Conduct is adapted from the Contributor Covenant, version 2.0, available at https://www.contributor-covenant.org/version/2/0/code_of_conduct.html.
Community Impact Guidelines were inspired by Mozilla's code of conduct enforcement ladder: https://github.com/mozilla/diversity
The Social Suggestions section is adapted from the Recurse Center's social rules: https://www.recurse.com/social-rules
This document was edited by @lafiosca with input from @cyberbarbie's mod squad and others.