iPatch.sh

#!/bin/bash

IPATH="/Applications/iTunes.app/Contents/MacOS"

if [ ! -e "$IPATH/iTunesX" ]
then
        sudo mv "$IPATH/iTunes" "$IPATH/iTunesX"

        # has sudo failed?
        if (( $? ))
        then
                exit
        fi  

sudo cat > "$IPATH/iTunes" <<-'EOF'
#!/bin/bash

PROCESS=$(ps aux | egrep "VLC|Ecoute" | egrep -v "egrep|Ecoute Helper")

if [ -z "$PROCESS" ]
then
        "/Applications/iTunes.app/Contents/MacOS/iTunesX" &
        disown %1
fi
EOF

        sudo chmod uog+x "$IPATH/iTunes"
else
        echo "Already patched."
fi

Will prevent iTunes from run when Ecoute or VLC running