xib-to-storyboard-segue.swift

//Xib class
import UIKit

protocol CustomViewDelegate: class {         // make this class protocol so you can create `weak` reference
    func goToNextScene()
}

class CustomView: UIView {

    weak var delegate: CustomViewDelegate?   // make this `weak` to avoid strong reference cycle b/w view controller and its views

    @IBAction func toSecondButton(sender: AnyObject) {
        delegate?.goToNextScene() 
    }

}


//Storyboard class

import UIKit

class ViewController: UIViewController, CustomViewDelegate {

    override func viewDidLoad() {
        super.viewDidLoad()

        let myCustomView = NSBundle.mainBundle().loadNibNamed("customView", owner: self, options: nil)[0] as! CustomView
        myCustomView.delegate = self

        // ... do whatever else you want with this custom view, adding it to your view hierarchy
    }


    func goToNextScene() {
        performSegueWithIdentifier("toSecond", sender: self)
    }

    ...

}