Don't want to use the ShareActionProvider? Use the ShareActionAdapter instead

menu_item_selector.xml

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?>
<selector xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android">
    <item android:state_pressed="false" android:drawable="@android:color/transparent" />
    <item android:state_pressed="true" android:drawable="@color/INSERHERE" /> <!-- try: #22FFFFFF -->
</selector>

menuitem.xml

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<LinearLayout xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
    android:orientation="horizontal" android:layout_width="match_parent"
    android:paddingTop="12.0dp"
    android:paddingBottom="12.0dp"
    android:paddingLeft="16.0dp"
    android:paddingRight="16.0dp"
    android:minWidth="196.0dp"
    android:background="@drawable/menu_item_selector"
    android:layout_gravity="center_vertical"
    android:clickable="true"
    style="@android:style/Widget.Holo.Light.PopupMenu">
    <ImageView
        android:layout_width="24.0dp"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:id="@+id/icon"
        android:adjustViewBounds="true"
        android:layout_marginRight="8.0dp"/>
    <TextView
        style="@android:style/Widget.Holo.Light.PopupMenu"
        android:id="@+id/title"
        android:layout_width="match_parent"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:singleLine="true"
        android:ellipsize="marquee"
        android:fadingEdge="horizontal"/>
</LinearLayout>

SampleActivity.java

public class MyActivity extends Activity {
  private ShareActionAdapter m_share_action_adapter = null;
  private ListPopupWindow m_popup_social = null;
  private Button m_share_button = null
  @Override
  public void OnCreate(Bundle savedInstance){
    setContentView(/*some_view that includes a button*/);
    m_share_button = findViewById(R.id.my_share_btn);
    m_share_button = m_actionbar.findViewById(R.id.share_btn);
    m_share_button.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
    m_share_action_adapter = new ShareActionAdapter(context);
    m_share_button.setOnClickListener(new OnClickListener() {
        @Override
        public void onClick(View v) {
            setNewPopup();
        }
    });
    m_share_action_adapter.setOnMenuListener(new ShareActionAdapter.OnMenuListner() {
        @Override
        public void onSeeAllSelected() {
          m_popup_social.dismiss();
          m_share_action_adapter.setSeeAll(true);
          setNewPopup();
        }
        @Override
        public void onItemSelected() {
          m_popup_social.dismiss();
        }
    });
  }
  
  private void setNewPopup(){
    m_popup_social = new ListPopupWindow(getContext(), null, -1, R.style.LocalSaver_PopupMenuStyle);
    m_popup_social.setAnchorView(m_share_button);
    m_popup_social.setAdapter(m_share_action_adapter);
    //R.dimen.popupwidth is 580.dp
    int maxWidth = Math.max(getResources().getDisplayMetrics().widthPixels / 2, getResources().getDimensionPixelSize(R.dimen.popupwidth));
    m_popup_social.setWidth(maxWidth);
    m_popup_social.setContentWidth(Math.min(maxWidth, m_share_action_adapter.measureContentWidth()));
    m_popup_social.setModal(true);
    m_popup_social.show();
    m_popup_social.setOnDismissListener(new PopupWindow.OnDismissListener() {
        @Override
        public void onDismiss() {
            m_share_action_adapter.setSeeAll(false);
        }
    });
  }
}

ShareActionAdapter.java

package com.localsaver.details;

import android.content.ComponentName;
import android.content.Context;
import android.content.Intent;
import android.content.pm.ActivityInfo;
import android.content.pm.PackageManager;
import android.content.pm.ResolveInfo;
import android.view.LayoutInflater;
import android.view.View;
import android.view.ViewGroup;
import android.widget.BaseAdapter;
import android.widget.ImageView;
import android.widget.LinearLayout;
import android.widget.TextView;
import android.view.View.MeasureSpec;

import java.util.ArrayList;

public class ShareActionAdapter extends BaseAdapter implements View.OnClickListener{
    private ArrayList<ResolveInfo> m_list;
    private Intent m_intent = null;
    private Context m_context;
    private boolean m_seall = false;
    private OnMenuListner m_menu_litener = null;
    private OnShareTargetSelected m_onshare_listener = null;

    private static int S_MAX_ELS = 4;

    public ShareActionAdapter (Context context){
        this(context, false);
    }
    public ShareActionAdapter (Context context, boolean seeAll){
        m_seall = seeAll;
        m_context = context;
        Intent intent = new Intent(Intent.ACTION_SEND);
        intent.setType("text/plain");
        PackageManager pm = context.getPackageManager();
        m_list = new ArrayList<>(pm.queryIntentActivities(intent, PackageManager.GET_RESOLVED_FILTER));
    }

    public void setSeeAll(boolean seeAll){
        m_seall = seeAll;
    }

    public void setShareIntent(Intent intent){
        m_intent = intent;
    }

    public void setOnMenuListener(OnMenuListner menuListener){
        m_menu_litener = menuListener;
    }

    public void setOnShareTargetSelected(OnShareTargetSelected shareTargetListener){
        m_onshare_listener = shareTargetListener;
    }

    @Override
    public int getCount() {
        return m_seall ? m_list.size() : Math.min(S_MAX_ELS, m_list.size()) + 1;
    }

    @Override
    public ResolveInfo getItem(int position) {
        return m_list.get(position);
    }

    @Override
    public long getItemId(int position) {
        return position;
    }

    @Override
    public View getView(int position, View convertView, ViewGroup parent) {
        convertView = convertView != null ? convertView : LayoutInflater.from(m_context).inflate(R.layout.menuitem, null);
        LinearLayout ll = (LinearLayout)convertView;
        if(!m_seall && position + 1 == getCount()){
            ll.findViewById(R.id.icon).setVisibility(View.GONE);
            ((TextView) ll.findViewById(R.id.title)).setText("See All");
            ll.setTag(-1);
        }
        else {
            ResolveInfo ri = getItem(position);
            ((TextView) ll.findViewById(R.id.title)).setText(ri.loadLabel(m_context.getPackageManager()).toString());
            ((ImageView) ll.findViewById(R.id.icon)).setImageDrawable(ri.loadIcon(m_context.getPackageManager()));
            ll.setTag(position);
        }
        ll.setOnClickListener(this);
        return ll;
    }

    public int measureContentWidth() {
        // Menus don't tend to be long, so this is more sane than it looks.
        int maxWidth = 0;
        View itemView = null;
        int itemType = 0;

        final int widthMeasureSpec = MeasureSpec.makeMeasureSpec(0, View.MeasureSpec.UNSPECIFIED);
        final int heightMeasureSpec = MeasureSpec.makeMeasureSpec(0, MeasureSpec.UNSPECIFIED);
        final int count = this.getCount();
        for (int i = 0; i < count; i++) {
            final int positionType = this.getItemViewType(i);
            if (positionType != itemType) {
                itemType = positionType;
                itemView = null;
            }

            itemView = this.getView(i, itemView, null);
            itemView.measure(widthMeasureSpec, heightMeasureSpec);

            final int itemWidth = itemView.getMeasuredWidth();
            if (itemWidth > maxWidth) {
                maxWidth = itemWidth;
            }
        }
        return maxWidth;
    }

    @Override
    public void onClick(View v) {
        int tag = (int)v.getTag();
        if(tag == -1 && m_menu_litener != null) {
            m_menu_litener.onSeeAllSelected();
        }
        else{
            m_menu_litener.onItemSelected();
            ResolveInfo ri = getItem(tag);
            if(ri != null && m_intent != null){
                ActivityInfo activity = ri.activityInfo;
                ComponentName name = new ComponentName(activity.applicationInfo.packageName, activity.name);
                if(m_onshare_listener != null)
                    m_onshare_listener.onShareTargetSelected(activity.name, m_intent);
                m_intent.setFlags(Intent.FLAG_ACTIVITY_NEW_TASK | Intent.FLAG_ACTIVITY_RESET_TASK_IF_NEEDED);
                m_intent.setComponent(name);
                m_context.startActivity(m_intent);
            }
        }
    }

    public static interface OnMenuListner{
        void onSeeAllSelected();
        void onItemSelected();
    }

    public static interface OnShareTargetSelected {
        void onShareTargetSelected(String name, Intent intent);
    }
}