member.clj

(defmacro def-action
  [name & {:keys [props]}]
  (let [defaults {:disabled false}]
    `(def ~(symbol name) ~(merge defaults props {:type (keyword name)}))))

(def-action call)
(def-action hangup)
(def-action mute)
(def-action unmute)
(def-action hold)
(def-action unhold)

(defn deactivate
  "Action will be deactivation"
  [action]
  (merge action {:disabled true}))

(defn actions
  "Select and execute flow for get action"
  [member]
  (cond
    :else (-> []
            (call-member-actions member)
            (call-member-visual-state member))))

(defn call-member-actions
  ""
  [actions {{:keys [type] :or {type :idle} :as status} :status}]
  (cond
    (= type :calling) (if (:mute status)
                        (conj actions hangup hold unmute)
                        (conj actions hangup hold mute))
    (= type :holding)  (conj actions hangup unhold)
    (= type :idle) (conj actions call)
    :else actions))

(defn call-member-visual-state
  ""
  [actions {{:keys [type] :or {type :idle} :as status} :status}]
  (cond
    (= type :holding) (if (:mute status)
                        (conj actions (deactivate unmute))
                        (conj actions (deactivate mute)))
    (= type :idle) (do (println (deactivate mute)) (conj actions
                                (deactivate hold)
                                (deactivate mute)))
    :else actions))

;; test get actions
(flow-actions {:status {:type :calling}})

Hi!

I wouldn't start with macros. Some suggestions:

1. docstrings are optional, there is no need for "".
2. You can pack both (if (:mute status) ...) as (if (:mute status) unmute mute)
3. Those conds can be written as case if you want fast and local dispatch or multi-methods if you want slower but extensible dispatch.
4. The cond in actions makes no sense. It's like calling if false { ingnore } else { doStuff } in JavaScript.
5. call-member-visual-state does both data transformations and side effects. Try to extract the do block and print statement into another function that you can mark as side-effecting and preserve the other pure functionality.