Silly functions.

delete_bunch.php

<?php 
$deleteData = trim($_POST['bunch_id']);

$con = mysql_connect("nuts","penis","balls");
if (!$con)
  {
  die('Could not connect: ' . mysql_error());
  }

mysql_select_db("chiquita-momcom", $con);

//mysql_query("DELETE FROM ballsack WHERE id='$deleteData'");

mysql_close($con);
?>

form.php

<h3>My Bunch</h3>

	<script>
	$('.delete-button').click(function(e) {
		e.preventDefault();
		
		alert("HURR!");
	
		var $button, url, data;
	
		$button = $(this);
		url     = '../../../../../wp-content/themes/chiquitamoms/members/single/delete_bunch.php';
		data    = { bunch_id: $this.data('id') };
	
		$('#dialog-confirm').dialog({
			resizable: false,
			height:140,
			modal: true,
			buttons: {
				'Yes': function() {
					$.post(url, data, function(response) {
						alert('Bunch deleted!');
					});
	
					$button.parent().parent().remove()
	
					$(this).dialog( "close" );
				},
				'No': function() {
					$(this).dialog( "close" );
				}
			}
		});
		});
	</script>

	<table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" class="my_bunch">
		<tr>
			<th>Relationship</th>
			<th>Name</th>
			<th>Nickname (optional)</th>
			<th>Birthday</th>
			<th></th> <!--Column added for delete button-->
		</tr>
		<?php
		$options = "
		<option value='Aunt'>Aunt</option>
		<option value='Brother'>Brother</option>
		<option value='Brother-In-Law'>Brother-In-Law</option>
		<option value='Cousin'>Cousin</option>
		<option value='Daughter'>Daughter</option>
		<option value='Daughter-in-law'>Daughter-in-law</option>
		<option value='Father'>Father</option>
		<option value='Father-In-Law'>Father-In-Law</option>
		<option value='Granddaughter'>Granddaughter</option>
		<option value='Grandfather'>Grandfather</option>
		<option value='Grandmother'>Grandmother</option>
		<option value='Grandson'>Grandson</option>
		<option value='Husband'>Husband</option>
		<option value='Mother'>Mother</option>
		<option value='Mother-in-law'>Mother-in-law</option>
		<option value='Nephew'>Nephew</option>
		<option value='Niece'>Niece</option>
		<option value='Partner'>Partner</option>
		<option value='Sister'>Sister</option>
		<option value='Sister-In-Law'>Sister-In-Law</option>
		<option value='Son'>Son</option>
		<option value='Son-in-law'>Son-in-law</option>
		<option value='Spouse'>Spouse</option>
		<option value='Stepbrother'>Stepbrother</option>
		<option value='Stepdaughter'>Stepdaughter</option>
		<option value='Stepfather'>Stepfather</option>
		<option value='Stepmother'>Stepmother</option>
		<option value='Stepsister'>Stepsister</option>
		<option value='Stepson'>Stepson</option>
		<option value='Uncle'>Uncle</option>
		<option value='Wife'>Wife</option>
		";
	for ($i=0; $i <=count($bunch); $i++) {
		$x=$i;
		$x++;
		if ($bunch[$i]['birthday'] == '0000-00-00 00:00:00') { $bday = ''; } else { $bday = substr($bunch[$i]['birthday'], 0, -9); }
		?>
		<tr>
			<td>
				<select name="relationship[]" id="relationship_<?php echo $x; ?>">
					<option value=''>-Select Relationship-</option>
						<?php
					$tmp = $bunch[$i]['relationship'];
	
					if(!empty($tmp)) {
						echo str_replace("value='". $tmp ."'","value='". $tmp ."' selected='selected'",$options);
					} else {
						echo $options;
					}
					?>
				</select>
	
				<?php
			?>
		</td>
		<td>
			<input name="bunch_name[]" type="text" class="bunch-name" value="<?php echo $bunch[$i]['name']; ?>" />
		</td>
		<td><input name="bunch_nickname[]" type="text" value="<?php echo $bunch[$i]['nickname']; ?>" /></td>
		<td><input name="bunch_birthday[]" type="text" class='bday bunch-bday' id='datepicker_<?php echo $x; ?>' value="<?php echo (!empty($bday) ? date('m/d/Y',strtotime($bday)) : ''); ?>" /></td>
		<td>
	
		<?php
		//die(var_dump($bunch)); great for seeing the whole array list
		$b = $bunch[$i]['id'];
		$n = $bunch[$i]['name'];
	
		if(!empty($b)) {
			?>	
			<div class="delete-button" data-id="<?php echo $bunch[$i]['id'] ?>">Delete</div>
			<?
		}
	
		?>
	</td>
	</tr>
	<? } ?>
	<tr>
		<td></td>
		<td></td>
		<td></td>
		<td><a id="add_bunch_fields" class="add_button" href="">[Add Another]</a></td>
	
	</tr>
	</table>
	<?php } ?>
	<div class="pro_btns">
		<?php /* ?><a href="<?php bp_loggedin_user_link();?>" class="btn_preview">PREVIEW YOUR PROFILE</a><?php */ ?>
		<input type="submit" value="SAVE" name="saveprofile" class="input_submit">
		<div id="dialog-confirm" class="confirm-hide" title="Delete Bunch Member?">
			<p>Are you sure you want to delete this bunch member?</p>
		</div>
	</div>
	</form>