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HOW TO DO BOUNDARIES RIGHT IN YOUR LIFE
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| HOW TO DO BOUNDARIES RIGHT IN YOUR LIFE: | |
| [ PSYCHOLOGICAL DEFENSE SERIES ] TITLE: Establishment of CONSCIOUS violation vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation of BOUNDARIES and the protocol for delivery of CONSEQUENCE due to BOUNDARY VIOLATION. | |
| [DANGER DO NOT READ THIS PROTOCOL IF YOU HAVE INSECURITIES AND OR ARE OPERATING WITH PATHOLOGICAL INTENT ] | |
| ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! THIS IS A RAW PSYCH SELF-DEFENSE SYSTEM ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! | |
| [DANGER DO NOT READ THIS PROTOCOL IF YOU HAVE INSECURITIES AND OR ARE OPERATING WITH PATHOLOGICAL INTENT ] | |
| ------------------- | |
| [ RULE#1 ] | |
| Boundaries are worthless unless there is a consequence. Here is how to operate a boundary/consequence protocol in your life. | |
| [ RULE #2 ] | |
| YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOUR BOUNDARIES AND SUSPECT VIOLATORS WHO TRY TO INVALIDATE MINIMIZE OR EXCUSE THEIR PERSONAL OR ARBITRARY EXCEPTION TO YOUR ESTABLISHED BOUNDARIES, ANY ATTEMPT TO INVALIDATE IN ANY WAY WHATSOEVER IS A CLEAR SIGN THAT THEY ARE VERY VERY LIKELY A MALICIOUS BOUNDARY VIOLATORS AND DISRESPECTFUL AT HEART OR UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ALCOHOL OR OTHER ARBITRARY DRUG ADDICTION. BE CAREFUL OF THE SNAKES OUT THERE. | |
| ------------ | |
| [PRINT THIS PROTOCOL] | |
| Keep this protocol card in your pocket or on the phone when dealing with [1] insubordinate employees [2] teen-aged children [3] any BOSSY or NAGGING wife/girlfriend/female/husband/boi-toy whatever... you know what We mean. [4] whomever you please. | |
| [DANGER NOTICE] | |
| IF YOU FORWARD THIS TO SOMEONE AND THEY SAY IT IS BULL SHIT, THEN THEY ARE VERY LIKELY A CONSCIOUS BOUNDARY VIOLATOR. | |
| YOU MAY ALSO ESTABLISH A CONSCIOUS AND OR UNCONSCIOUS INTENT BASED UPON THE RESPONSE TO READING THIS, WATCH THE SUBJECT CLOSELY AND OR THEIR LEVEL OF REJECTION OF THIS PROTOCOL, A VERY NEGATIVE RESPONSE TO THE VALIDITY OF THE PROTOCOL IN THIS DOCUMENT GENERALLY MEANS THE SUSPECT VIOLATOR IS ACCUSTOM TO SYSTEMATIC VIOLATION OF OTHERS PEOPLES BOUNDARIES AND DOES NOT LIKE OR WANT TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCE SECTION OF THIS DOCUMENT. BEWARE OF PUSHING THEM TO ACCEPT THIS PROTOCOL, IT MAY VERY WELL END THE RELATIONSHIP AND POSSIBLY TURN SOUTH AND END UP AS A FIGHT OR WORSE >>> AGAIN BE VERY CAREFUL <<< | |
| [END DANGER NOTICE] | |
| TITLE: Establishment of CONSCIOUS vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation of BOUNDARIES and the protocol for delivery of CONSEQUENCE due to ESTABLISHED CONSCIOUS |OR| UNCONSCIOUS BOUNDARY VIOLATION. | |
| ******************** THE BOUNDARY PROTOCOL BELOW ******************** | |
| ********************************************************************* | |
| [ A ] BOUNDARY ESTABLISHED >> Clear and unequivocal Declaration: Do Not : [1] touch my body [2] disturb me [3] steal from me [4] touch my child [5] lie to me about your intent [6] Enter my home [7] whatever desired, etc? | |
| [ B ] BOUNDARY VIOLATION RESPONSE(s)/CONSEQUENCE(s) >> IF YOU VIOLATE MY BOUNDARIES, I WILL : [ 1 ] scream, [2] lock you out, [3] get or become upset, [4] kick in balls [5] boundary owners choice? | |
| [ !!!!!! CRITICAL !!!!!! NOTE : A & B MUST BE DELIVERED CONSECUTIVELY WITH NO PAUSE BETWEEN. ] | |
| .... RELATIVE CONSCIOUS ABSORBTION SEQUENCE HERE ..... | |
| [ C ] BOUNDARY VIOLATION WARNING >> Clear and unequivocal warnings [1]stop, [2]quit, [3]cease ..... | |
| [ D ] BOUNDARY CROSS LIMIT >> running count/tally of violations : [ COUNT ] V1 ... Vn: SOME NUMBER OF ALLOWED VIOLATIONS BEFORE CONSEQUENCE IN TRIGGERED. Number of violations of boundary | |
| [ E ] DETERMINE IF (SUB)CONSCIOUS BOUNDARY CROSSED >> factual CONSCIOUS violation vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation …. | |
| [ F ] BOUNDARY VIOLATION CONSEQUENCE CONDITION CHECK >> If CONSCIOUS violation TRUE/false: declaration of final warning and determine if a consequence is to be enacted. ||| >> If UNCONSCIOUS violation of Boundary TRUE./false . .. Determine the extent of conscious violation TRUE. … | |
| [ G ] BOUNDARY CONSEQUENCE RESPONSE LEVEL >> Determine DEGREE / LEVEL of violation consequences [1] slight [2] moderate [3] obvious [4] malicious [5] egregious [6] murderous ? | |
| [ H ] ESTABLISH CONSEQUENCE ORIGIN >>: CONSCIOUS vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation, to establish if Consequence declaration necessary : [1] breaking into home NO [2] eating the last cookie YES [3] Nagging about stupid shit YES [4] forcing themselves upon us NO [5] boundary owners choice [?] … | |
| [ I ] DECLARE CONSEQUENCE IS BEING SERVED >>: Declare that consequence will be served based on previous TRUE/FALSE value calculation : [YES] I am going to now____ [NO] skip to next step | |
| [ J ] DETERMINE CONSEQUENCE DELIVERY LEVEL >> Refer back to step [G] for rank [1]-[6] determines the delivery level … | |
| [ K ] EXECUTE CONSEQUENCE >> Deliver the consequence that matches the offense based upon [ 1 ] LEVEL of violation and [ 2 ] CONSCIOUS violation vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation | |
| .... RELATIVE CONSCIOUS ABSORBTION SEQUENCE AND PHYSICS PROCESS HERE ..... | |
| [ L ] EXPLAIN CONSEQUENCE DELIVERY >> [ 1 ] That's what you deserve scum. [ 2 ] I only do this because I love you. [ 3 ] Take this as a learning lesson <opportunity to learn> [ 4 ] This is the result of your actions/behavior and you made this decision yourself. [ 5 ] whatever you wish ..? | |
| [ M ] PROVIDE OPPORTUNITY TO REFLECT >> [ 1 ] So you wanna talk about what happened here? [ 2 ] Did you enjoy that, want another? [ 3 ] I feel we need to look at our relationship again, do you agree? [ 4 ] You can either stop the violation of my boundaries RO leave now, DO YOU UNDERSTAND? YES or NO? [ 5 ] Any conversational starter you like. etc...? | |
| [ N... thru ...Y ] GO OVER BOUNDARY STEP [ A & B ] again to ensure CONSCIOUS violation ACKNOWLEDGEMENT if UNCONSCIOUS violation tries JEDI MIND TRICKS here. [ CONTACT ME FOR PREMIUM PSYCH LIFE TIPS <:-) ] | |
| [ Z ] !!! RUN IF YOU NEED TO ... REFER TO [ DANGER ] !! SECTION AT TOP OF PROTOCOL .. WATCH OUT FOR CONSCIOUS VIOLATORS, THEY ARE DANGEROUS. | |
| ********************************************************** | |
| . | |
| Disclaimer Note: I am an IDIOT SAVANT that rides the short bus, so do not blame me for any of the following : | |
| [1] better life and relationships [2] dissolution of marriage [3] violence toward you and your property [4] anything else that results from following or sharing this VALID LIFE protocol <3 <3 <3 $$$ BE SAFE WITH YOUR BOUNDARIES AND WHO YOU CHOSE TO ESTABLISH THEM WITH. | |
| . | |
| [ !!! DANGER !!!! NOTICE TO DEVIOUS AND MALICIOUS INTENT AND BOUNDARY VIOLATORS !!! DANGER !!!! ] | |
| ( I SUGGEST YOU STOP YOUR VIOLATIONS) |
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HOW TO DO BOUNDARIES RIGHT IN YOUR LIFE:
[ PSYCHOLOGICAL DEFENSE SERIES ] TITLE: Establishment of CONSCIOUS violation vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation of BOUNDARIES and the protocol for delivery of CONSEQUENCE due to BOUNDARY VIOLATION.
[DANGER DO NOT READ THIS PROTOCOL IF YOU HAVE INSECURITIES AND OR ARE OPERATING WITH PATHOLOGICAL INTENT ]
! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! THIS IS A RAW PSYCH SELF-DEFENSE SYSTEM ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
[DANGER DO NOT READ THIS PROTOCOL IF YOU HAVE INSECURITIES AND OR ARE OPERATING WITH PATHOLOGICAL INTENT ]
[ RULE#1 ]
Boundaries are worthless unless there is a consequence. Here is how to operate a boundary/consequence protocol in your life.
[ RULE #2 ]
YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOUR BOUNDARIES AND SUSPECT VIOLATORS WHO TRY TO INVALIDATE MINIMIZE OR EXCUSE THEIR PERSONAL OR ARBITRARY EXCEPTION TO YOUR ESTABLISHED BOUNDARIES, ANY ATTEMPT TO INVALIDATE IN ANY WAY WHATSOEVER IS A CLEAR SIGN THAT THEY ARE VERY VERY LIKELY A MALICIOUS BOUNDARY VIOLATORS AND DISRESPECTFUL AT HEART OR UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ALCOHOL OR OTHER ARBITRARY DRUG ADDICTION. BE CAREFUL OF THE SNAKES OUT THERE.
[PRINT THIS PROTOCOL]
Keep this protocol card in your pocket or on the phone when dealing with [1] insubordinate employees [2] teen-aged children [3] any BOSSY or NAGGING wife/girlfriend/female/husband/boi-toy whatever... you know what We mean. [4] whomever you please.
[DANGER NOTICE]
IF YOU FORWARD THIS TO SOMEONE AND THEY SAY IT IS BULL SHIT, THEN THEY ARE VERY LIKELY A CONSCIOUS BOUNDARY VIOLATOR.
YOU MAY ALSO ESTABLISH A CONSCIOUS AND OR UNCONSCIOUS INTENT BASED UPON THE RESPONSE TO READING THIS, WATCH THE SUBJECT CLOSELY AND OR THEIR LEVEL OF REJECTION OF THIS PROTOCOL, A VERY NEGATIVE RESPONSE TO THE VALIDITY OF THE PROTOCOL IN THIS DOCUMENT GENERALLY MEANS THE SUSPECT VIOLATOR IS ACCUSTOM TO SYSTEMATIC VIOLATION OF OTHERS PEOPLES BOUNDARIES AND DOES NOT LIKE OR WANT TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCE SECTION OF THIS DOCUMENT. BEWARE OF PUSHING THEM TO ACCEPT THIS PROTOCOL, IT MAY VERY WELL END THE RELATIONSHIP AND POSSIBLY TURN SOUTH AND END UP AS A FIGHT OR WORSE >>> AGAIN BE VERY CAREFUL <<<
[END DANGER NOTICE]
TITLE: Establishment of CONSCIOUS vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation of BOUNDARIES and the protocol for delivery of CONSEQUENCE due to ESTABLISHED CONSCIOUS |OR| UNCONSCIOUS BOUNDARY VIOLATION.
******************** THE BOUNDARY PROTOCOL BELOW ********************
[ A ] BOUNDARY ESTABLISHED >> Clear and unequivocal Declaration: Do Not : [1] touch my body [2] disturb me [3] steal from me [4] touch my child [5] lie to me about your intent [6] Enter my home [7] whatever desired, etc?
[ B ] BOUNDARY VIOLATION RESPONSE(s)/CONSEQUENCE(s) >> IF YOU VIOLATE MY BOUNDARIES, I WILL : [ 1 ] scream, [2] lock you out, [3] get or become upset, [4] kick in balls [5] boundary owners choice?
[ !!!!!! CRITICAL !!!!!! NOTE : A & B MUST BE DELIVERED CONSECUTIVELY WITH NO PAUSE BETWEEN. ]
.... RELATIVE CONSCIOUS ABSORBTION SEQUENCE HERE .....
[ C ] BOUNDARY VIOLATION WARNING >> Clear and unequivocal warnings [1]stop, [2]quit, [3]cease .....
[ D ] BOUNDARY CROSS LIMIT >> running count/tally of violations : [ COUNT ] V1 ... Vn: SOME NUMBER OF ALLOWED VIOLATIONS BEFORE CONSEQUENCE IN TRIGGERED. Number of violations of boundary
[ E ] DETERMINE IF (SUB)CONSCIOUS BOUNDARY CROSSED >> factual CONSCIOUS violation vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation ….
[ F ] BOUNDARY VIOLATION CONSEQUENCE CONDITION CHECK >> If CONSCIOUS violation TRUE/false: declaration of final warning and determine if a consequence is to be enacted. ||| >> If UNCONSCIOUS violation of Boundary TRUE./false . .. Determine the extent of conscious violation TRUE. …
[ G ] BOUNDARY CONSEQUENCE RESPONSE LEVEL >> Determine DEGREE / LEVEL of violation consequences [1] slight [2] moderate [3] obvious [4] malicious [5] egregious [6] murderous ?
[ H ] ESTABLISH CONSEQUENCE ORIGIN >>: CONSCIOUS vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation, to establish if Consequence declaration necessary : [1] breaking into home NO [2] eating the last cookie YES [3] Nagging about stupid shit YES [4] forcing themselves upon us NO [5] boundary owners choice [?] …
[ I ] DECLARE CONSEQUENCE IS BEING SERVED >>: Declare that consequence will be served based on previous TRUE/FALSE value calculation : [YES] I am going to now____ [NO] skip to next step
[ J ] DETERMINE CONSEQUENCE DELIVERY LEVEL >> Refer back to step [G] for rank [1]-[6] determines the delivery level …
[ K ] EXECUTE CONSEQUENCE >> Deliver the consequence that matches the offense based upon [ 1 ] LEVEL of violation and [ 2 ] CONSCIOUS violation vs. UNCONSCIOUS violation
.... RELATIVE CONSCIOUS ABSORBTION SEQUENCE AND PHYSICS PROCESS HERE .....
[ L ] EXPLAIN CONSEQUENCE DELIVERY >> [ 1 ] That's what you deserve scum. [ 2 ] I only do this because I love you. [ 3 ] Take this as a learning lesson [ 4 ] This is the result of your actions/behavior and you made this decision yourself. [ 5 ] whatever you wish ..?
[ M ] PROVIDE OPPORTUNITY TO REFLECT >> [ 1 ] So you wanna talk about what happened here? [ 2 ] Did you enjoy that, want another? [ 3 ] I feel we need to look at our relationship again, do you agree? [ 4 ] You can either stop the violation of my boundaries RO leave now, DO YOU UNDERSTAND? YES or NO? [ 5 ] Any conversational starter you like. etc...?
[ N... thru ...Y ] GO OVER BOUNDARY STEP [ A & B ] again to ensure CONSCIOUS violation ACKNOWLEDGEMENT if UNCONSCIOUS violation tries JEDI MIND TRICKS here. [ CONTACT ME FOR PREMIUM PSYCH LIFE TIPS <:-) ]
[ Z ] !!! RUN IF YOU NEED TO ... REFER TO [ DANGER ] !! SECTION AT TOP OF PROTOCOL .. WATCH OUT FOR CONSCIOUS VIOLATORS, THEY ARE DANGEROUS.
.
Disclaimer Note: I am an IDIOT SAVANT that rides the short bus, so do not blame me for any of the following :
[1] better life and relationships [2] dissolution of marriage [3] violence toward you and your property [4] anything else that results from following or sharing this VALID LIFE protocol <3 <3 <3 $$$ BE SAFE WITH YOUR BOUNDARIES AND WHO YOU CHOSE TO ESTABLISH THEM WITH.
.
[ !!! DANGER !!!! NOTICE TO DEVIOUS AND MALICIOUS INTENT AND BOUNDARY VIOLATORS !!! DANGER !!!! ]
( I SUGGEST YOU STOP YOUR VIOLATIONS)