The number of messages or interactions people get on OKCupid is highly correlated to the variance of their rankings. Profiles that were highly polarizing got about 70% more messages than average profiles. The same is true of societies rankings of beauty and competence. To get a middle ranking by polarization is extraordinary.
http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/10/13/dataclysm-christian-rudder-extraordinary/