RegEx match open tags except XHTML self-contained tags

dom_tag_extractor.php

<?php
$selfClosing = explode(',', 'area,base,basefont,br,col,frame,hr,img,input,isindex,link,meta,param,embed');

$html = '
<p><a href="#">foo</a></p>
<hr/>
<br/>
<div>name</div>';

$dom = new DOMDocument();
$dom->loadHTML($html);
$els = $dom->getElementsByTagName('*');
foreach ( $els as $el ) {
    $nodeName = strtolower($el->nodeName);
    if ( !in_array( $nodeName, $selfClosing ) ) {
        var_dump( $nodeName );
    }
}