# Outgoing
nc -v -u www.google.com 443
# Incoming
nc -v -u 1.1.1.1 443
Sometimes that nc -vu command is not enough to verify UDP 443 port unless it will return some information back You can verify it with tcpdump, e.g. Run tcpdump on the website's server.
tcpdump -vv udp port 443 -X
Run nc command from any client server.
nc -vu YOUR_DOMAIN 443
and you should see some output on server if there's any UDP port 443 traffic in and out.