Dear Xavier,
thanks for your prompt reply. I for one think that should dbiyf run out of databases to talk about - not that there's a risk of it happening these days - you can start ybiyf (your brain is your friend) with no fear of failure.
It's funny you should mention my attitude towards my partner sleeping around, as just last week she told me she had sex with a muscular surfer in the freezing waters of Bondi Beach, and that apparently wouldn't disturb him in the slightest. Which made me think less of myself on top of everything.
Your stance towards strippers is interesting. Though I don't think there's much baggage involved these days. They are, however, getting really greedy as of 5 years ago. Used to be that in order to get a lap dance, all you had to do is show up and be reasonably good looking (not a problem in my case). Nowadays you won't get anywhere for less than $100 nicely folded into their crack. I think that means this whole market is shifting towards the sugar daddies' advantage. Soon enough these joints will start looking like an aged care centre. Too bad for the strippers I guess.
As for your last question, the best answer I can give is this:
Much love. Fan of your code. Fan of your prose.
ps: do you really think she'd be ok with that if that was a plate of salad?