If you cannot express the incentives of yourself and those around you without having to explain that there are a class of people you refuse to interact with, then you are a conservative bigot. The inability to compromise with those whom you disagree, or even consider those who would try to do such, is morally reprehensible to me. You've created a new place in which all of the new members of the old place who haven't deemed themselves worthy through attention to some unnamed few are automatically banned.
There is no way that is not a good-old-boys club. So fine, ban me too. I can accept the end of the PN: it's an online furry gay bar hosted on software that was dated when I joined 14 years ago. I can accept that its time has passed, but I can't accept this alternative.
Make the space you want, I'm all about that, but I have no desire to play along with this reasoning. I'll not pay dues in slavering affection just to maintain membership in some exclusive club if it means compromising my morals. That is the very definition of the losing end of a bargain.
:snoof