Don't worry, I'll be fine
- Start telling me a story - anything to keep my mind from wandering
- Don't be nervous - I managed to write this card, I'll be okay
- Don't expect a reaction from me - but if I do talk or interact it's a good thing
- Ask me something simple every few minutes - yes or no questions are good
- If we're in public, don't make a scene - having more people around will make me nervous